Love is sweet and magical. It makes you feel happy and
blooming every day. Everything you see is colorful but the
best of them is red. It feels so good to be in love especially
if the one you love is right there beside you giving you
hugs and kisses. Holding your hands everywhere you go
and saying “I love you” every time of the day. Feeling in
love is the reason why you smile from the moment you
wake up and the reason why you have sweet dreams at
night. You both plan for the future while looking at the
stars in the sky.
But what if your case is in a long distance relationship?
How will the both of you save it to make it work? You
need these three (3) important things: LOVE, TRUST and
RESPECT.
Here are 15 tips to save a long distance relationship that
are shared with you:
1. COMMUNICATE. Always communicate no matter how
both busy you are of the day. Text him/her when you wake
up and inform your love one that you’re going to miss him/
her because you will be very busy during that day. You
could also leave a sweet message on Facebook, IM’s or
just a text from your mobile phone. When the evening
comes, that’s the time where both of you could call each
other and talk how busy you were but never fail to think of
each other. The words “I LOVE YOU” before the call will
end is very important. It will make you feel that you are
loved and not neglected by your partner.
2. GIVE HIM/HER SPACE. You both have a life and
dreams to fulfill as a unique individual. It is very important
that you should also have time to spend with your family
and friends. Though you’re going to miss each other’s
absence but believe me, it will help you grow as an unique
individual who has dreams and plans for the future.
3. NEVER LET THE SUNSET WHEN YOU’RE STILL
MAD AT EACH OTHER. Meaning, do not sleep when
both of you haven’t make up yet from your love quarrel.
Sleeping while crying or being angry is bad for your
health. It will affect your mood when you wake up on the
morning and you will feel weak during the day. Saying
“Please forgive me, I’m really sorry. I love you” is very
important in a relationship.
4. KEEP IN MIND THAT THERE IS NO PERFECT
RELATIONSHIP IN THIS WORLD. Yes, there’s no
perfect in a relationship but both of you could make your
day perfect with your love even though you’re miles apart.
It’s a matter of choice. Just be open-minded.
5. DO NOT EXPECT TOO MUCH. Expectation is the
root of all disappointments. Right?
6. LOWER THE PRIDE. Sometimes, when you can’t
swallow your pride, both of you will grow bitter and cold
which will make your relationship complicated and cold.
That’s why, saying “I’m sorry” is still very important. If
you apologize, you are lowering you pride whether you are
or not at fault.
7. BE LOYAL AND HONEST. Even if both of you were
miles apart, do not flirt with other girls or boys or whoever
that someone else. Never ever cheat. You are not an animal
to have two hearts or more to love many persons at the
same time. If you are a two-timer or three-timer, ask
yourself what animal are you (hahaha).
8. TRUST YOUR PARTNER. Trust is very important. If
you do not trust your partner, then you do not love him at
all.
9. MAKE YOUR PLANS ABOUT MEETING
SOMEDAY. In a long distance relationship it is very
important that the partners mutually discusses and makes
plans to meet sometime sooner or later.
10. CHANGE YOUR PARTNER’S BAD HABITS BUT
NEVER FORCE HIM TO CHANGE. If he or she does
loves you, then he will do everything for you. It is always
better that when you are away from your partner you
discuss good and bad qualities of one another, try to
identify the bad habits of each other and help one another
to get rid of them however one needs to be very careful
that you are not forcing your partner to do it. It should be
mutually out of love and affection.
11. LENGTHEN YOUR PATIENCE. It’s very important
to be patient in a long distance relationship. Always and
always be patient with each other. At time you may feel
frustrated as you don’t get a chance to often meet your
partner.
12. UNDERSTAND THAT YOUR PARTNER IS
BUSY. You must understand that your partner may be busy
at times or due to their prior commitments with other
friends and family members or may be due to other
important work he/she is unable to reply to your message
instantly. In such a case do not make it an issue, so forgive
him / her for not replying to your message on time.
13. ALWAYS TELL YOUR PARTNER WHERE
YOU’RE GOING. It is always considered good to inform
your partner proactively of your day to day activity so that
your partner does not feel insecure.
14. DO NOT KEEP SECRETS. One must never keep any
secrets in a long distance relationship. Try not to hide
anything from your partner, sharing little things also helps.
15. NEVER FAIL TO ENCOURAGE EACH OTHER.
When you are in a long distance relationship you must
never fail to encourage each other to do good in studies,
career or any other activities in life that you’ll be going
through.
There are a lot of tips and list goes on but I hope this
article helped you to enlighten your minds and hearts.
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